Deluxe Bitch [upd]
Research in organizational psychology suggests that women who set firm boundaries are rated as less "likable" than their compliant peers. The Deluxe Bitch has made peace with this. She does not trade her self-respect for your comfort. As the actress and producer Issa Rae once put it, "I’m rooting for everybody Black," but the Deluxe Bitch would add: ...as long as they’re rooting for me right back, with receipts.
A "deluxe bitch" is not necessarily a negative term. While it uses the word "bitch," in this context, it is often reclaimed or used affectionately/respectfully to describe a "boss" persona. deluxe bitch
The "Deluxe" prefix elevates the persona to one of luxury and exclusivity. This aesthetic often involves: "I’m rooting for everybody Black