It’s Sadie Hawkins Day.
— Jamie is a writer and DJ living in Chicago. She believes every t-girl deserves to feel like the leading lady of her own rom-com. sadie hawkins tgirl
But Sadie Hawkins reminds us that we can rewrite the rules. We don’t have to fit into a box of what a woman "should" be. We can be the aggressor. We can be the provider. We can be the one leading the dance. It’s Sadie Hawkins Day
As t-girls, we are told constantly that we are too much. Too tall, too loud, too queer, too assertive. We are taught that our desirability hinges on being small and apologetic. But Sadie Hawkins reminds us that we can rewrite the rules
That’s why I’ve started hosting what my friends call
Not in a predatory sense, but in a protagonist sense. It’s about flipping the script from “Will they accept me?” to “Do I want them ?”